THE SHIELD

I don't know who spoke these words but they triggered my ponder...

"A real man doesn't quit on what's important to him, if he doesn't fight, he doesn't see a future with you"

The king of the wild do hunger and lack, so is the frail strength of the man.

So many times men are tempted to be gone with the wind, in search of an evolving solace.

Little would you wonder what propels the  old incomplete phrase "all men are cheats" but they never mention the complete phrase "...all men are cheats because..."

A man's commitment is a shield - a metal creed, built tough to hold the forte.

Hence he'll rather dine than fight. He will dance to the tune where there are no rules of engagement because he knows one hard truth...

The weight of the shield although movable is of great tonnes; If he truly gives it then he's bound to stay.

When you close your eyes through the years and open them, you'll find not just my shield, but the bearer.

Two Different isn't Too Different.

Dear daughter,

I noticed your little pet dog - Tasha; even after the years, she still share this bond with you like it did yesterday.

Have you ever wondered why dogs are referred to as man's best friend? Let me share with you my keen observation.

1. Loyalty - Tasha's loyalty to you can never be questioned even when it chooses to be friendly to all; her much knowledge about you shows in her attitude towards you.

2. Obedience - Tasha knows and submit on hearing the sound of your voice or command even above your other siblings. She tends to do only what you approve or bids her do.

3. Violent - I watched Tasha aggressively support you the other day Temi - our neighbor decided to pick a fight over parking space even though you were wrong. She did bark viciously and would have bitten Temi if he moved any closer towards you. 

4. Excitement - This very trait triggered this whole findings. Tasha truly delights in seeing you. I observe her genuine excitement every morning everyday through the years. An enthusiasm borne out of a mutual bond; firm and deep. For as long as Tasha lives, she is quite confident you will never abandon or neglect your duty to her.

5. Surrender - Do you know whenever you scold Tasha firmly, it never barks back in aggression or attempts to bite you? Instead, with good judgement, she folds her tail inside to win your sympathy by surrendering. It amazing how it works every time; earning your tender pat instead.

Thinking about it, your mom always got a better part of me when she discovered and applied these principles. She gave me little or no chance to fight back knowing any direct confrontation I got from her reduced her chances of winning that battle. According to her, quiet battles often times win the greatest wars.

Beyond doubt, Tasha LOVES you. 'Play Tasha' and you will win the heart of your man or husband when you are married, keeping in mind regardless of your differences, two different isn't too different after all.